is it half-empty or half-full?

what happens when some things don't go our way? | what happens when we are desperate for a change in our situation? | do other people change? | do i change? | what happens when people don't change, which then forces me to be the change? |

Sure, maybe sometimes I've changed, but the situation would still feel the same. why what how then...?

True change really comes, with the change of perspective.
That subtle change that no one can really see but yourself. 
That change that no one can instill, but only you yourself.
And it's really up to yourself to keep holding on to it to gain strength,
Or be influenced by the worldly opinions that you just choose to desert that invisible change of perspective you feel does justice in settling your heart down.

|That mere deviation can set you free.|

And so many "How-to-" articles out there, their purpose of existence isn't really just to teach you life hacks, but using those experiences, serving to hopefully trigger your change of perspective.

Cuz honestly, once you've set your mind to something, nothing can really defeat you anymore..